What a day, these days ... When the spring catches in advance, I like to live walking. Why mens sana in corpore sano, because the nature and architectural showcase that is around you as a friend to confide in, because it is good to feel good, a sort of blow-esteem. Quality of life is this: a bit 'of jogging (in mio caso, “walking in progress”) lontano dal caos quotidiano. Nella consapevolezza che in quel momento, forse, non vorrei essere da nessun altra parte al mondo.
Ossigena, purifica e rigenera. Potresti quasi montarci uno spot.
Ebbene durante la passeggiata – tra i saliscendi dell’acropoli eugubina, dove gli archi e le "porte del morto" ti sussurrano quanto tu sia fortunato (e spesso quasi inconsapevole) ad avere a due passi tutto questo – ritornavo, a momenti alterni, all’incontro di giovedì al Cinema Italia.
“I giovani e la legalità ”, il tema dell’iniziativa promossa dall’associazione El.Ba. (always at the top of the sensitivity in social communication and dialogue with the younger generation), present many school children, teachers and parents, special guest on stage the judge of the Juvenile Court of Cassation in Rome, Maria Teresa Spagnoletti. With her, the captain of the Carabinieri of Gubbio - the only 28 year old Pierre Iannicca - a head teacher - the professor is never banal. Dario Missaglia - a psychotherapist - Cinzia Rogo and institutional representatives and politicians.
not a conference, not a conference. But a highly interactive dialogue between the speakers and the audience: that's what I wanted to be - since I had been charged with "moderate " the meeting.
the way, small aside: I wonder why we always talk about "moderator" in initiatives on which there should be no disagreement, diversity of views, and therefore there should be no need to moderate. If anything, calibrate (timing, content, emphases) the "chat". Although not actually see much the definition of "calibrator." Closed in parentheses.
Spagnoletti I met the judge in a previous meeting devoted to the "safe driving", organized always dall'effervescente El.Ba. I touched his very words, examples of real life that had led to evidence of how young people often are - in spite of themselves - totally unaware (but the right word would be "irresponsible") of the consequences of their actions. Almost
the company, but most times the same family, never puts them in the face of responsibility, even the smallest. Most of the company, but also the school or the same old family, do not give them the minimum basic concept of "rules to follow."
La reazione della famiglia? “Non è possibile, nostro figlio è un bravo ragazzo, vi sbagliate di sicuro”. “Per far capire ai genitori che quello che era accaduto non era una bravata da oratorio – raccontò il Giudice, accento romano, con quella cadenza un po’ ironica un po’ sarcastica che il fare capitolino spesso ispira – lo mettemmo agli arresti domiciliari. Sapete cosa mi chiese la madre? Se la sera dopo poteva uscire per andare ad una festa… Ovviamente risposi di no, ma mangiai la foglia. Feci sorvegliare l’abitazione, scoprimmo che furono i genitori ad accompagnare il ragazzo alla festa – violando la disposizione dei domiciliari. Feci intervenire i Carabinieri e il ragazzo finì in prigione. E sapete la madre cosa mi disse: “Ma allora fate sul serio?”.
I giovani hanno un concetto spesso troppo astratto della legalità. Semplicemente perché non sono abituati a rispettare le regole. Neanche a casa, dove il più delle volte se ti azzardi a dire di chiudere la tv e venire a tavola te la cavi con un solo “vaffa”. A quel punto però è già un po’ tardi per intervenire.
“ Credo che i giovani abbiano bisogno di essere ascoltati – le parole della Spagnoletti in the interview that I made and will air in " Link" in the 18th episode on February 17 next - Too often a parent is taken from work, from everyday life, with haste. Or by fatigue after a stressful day. The children require time, energy, but also participation. But often you do not have the strength nor the courage to be there, and especially to say no, because it is more convenient to give - when a child is a child - and then gives necessarily and even more so when he grows up. A boy who makes a mistake, and I see so many every day - continues Judge Roman - is a boy which gives a signal, gives us a message. Usually does not have a family to cling to, or if he is better that is as far as possible from what is dysfunctional. "
Yet there is no unique recipe with which to solve the problems of communication that often exist between different generations, " Perhaps it is too commonplace to say that we need more dialogue. But definitely need more attention - wisely added the headmaster Dario Misson - We talk to young people, as if our experience would be the only compass that should guide them. In reality it is the comparison with our experience that can help them grow. Make aware of the need to respect the rules. Not because they are imposed, not because there is a principal who prescribes, but because those rules are the guarantee of protection of the weakest, because thanks to those rules a community, that may be educational, such as family, like society when they are adults, it gives a sort. Sense of responsibility is one of the keys with which to open a dialogue with young people.
should be held accountable, but it also told them that if mistakes are held accountable. Of course, sometimes the adult world does not leave illuminating examples and then everything becomes more complicated . The film thankfully
was full. And even more fortunately have been many interventions in the room - a sign that the issue was heard and there was "not only because the school had asked me to be there." Emblematic
two sentences from the audience. A teacher - Lucia Zoppis - that draws the boys to two concepts: " courage and sense of belonging to a community, a group, as well as a family are the foundations on which to build a relationship and at the same time, compliance with a system of legality .
And a student who, almost naively (but not too much) asks: " But what is the family you mention in your speeches these? this family still exist?".
do not know the her. But such a question makes me think that it has many stories to tell that deserves more of a reflection. Its more than a question, it is a cry for help, on behalf of an entire generation.
The last paragraph of the court still Spagnoletti " I can be fortunate and gratified if in a year, after 365 days of work, I managed to pull out one guy from prison with a conviction that is not returning to crime that can build a future. I just have saved only one in a year, to say I did my full duty. But know that that success would depend on each one of us, each in its field: as a school teacher, as forces order, as media. And especially as a father, mother or friend .
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